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tobin and graham  |  fredericksburg, va family photographers

This fall, my friend and fellow photographer Tracy did a picture swap!   She did my family pictures, and I did hers!   It is fun, and a little nerve-wracking, shooting for another photographer.  Because we each have our own style, and while we want to stay true to THAT, we also want to give the other photographer some of they style they shoot in, because, clearly, that is what THEY love!   It is also a pretty great way to keep learning and getting better and more diverse!!!

 

You may remember Tracy and her family from Grahams newborn session last year!

 

Somehow, we planned our Downtown Fredericksburg session for the SAME day as the annual Christmas Parade.  So we moved over to another spot down there that I love!  Tracy was a little disappointed because she wanted some Christmas lights in her pictures and there weren’t many there!  But we SO lucked out!

 

We TRIED this doorway … to see if it would work!    It didn’t, really!  But I loved this!!!

So then, as we were wandering around, we saw a door open and inside they were setting up for a banquet.  There was also a Christmas tree right inside.  We asked if we could shoot some in there, and the owner said YES!!!  I think Trace was about to EXPLODE with happiness! 

And I’m in 100% love with the way Tracy and Steve are communicating silently is the next one!

The boys were in their glory!  Tobin is 4… he has grown up SO much this past year!!!  He used to be super shy around me.. but he was open and silly and I totally loved it!  Graham is just a ball of sunshine.. these super cute, squishy cheek smiles are endless!

 

But it was all of them, together, that made this session so special!  Because in every glace, every movement… they were all in tune with each other.  And THAT, is PRET-TY special!

This.. is magic!

Of course, that was only the beginning of our session!

Steve is such an affectionate daddy!  TOTALLY teaching his boys how to love in a gentle, hand-on way!  He is also playfun with them… which is fab!

 

I think it shows in Tobins, happy, confidant smile!

I have a “thing” for sibling relationships, as I’m sure you know!:)   Watching my girls, my boys, and them all together, just amazes me!  Tobin and Graham were no exception!

Tobin tried hard to keep Graham close!
Oy!

When I did Grahams newborn session, Tobin brought his mommy a flower….

… must be a theme… as he did it again!

sweet baby!:)

 

Family pictures make me happy!

There was another, but for some crazy reason, it will not let me upload!  Argh!

 

Anywhoo! 

These boys… I’m telling you!

Steve wanted to get in on the photographer action!  Apparently, he needed a new picture for his phone wall-paper!

Obviously, this isn’t really encouraged during a session, but hey!  It was one picture!;)

 

One thing I know I lack… and Tracy, too… and, well, pretty much most mommies… is a nice picture of her with her kiddos!  I think this one… is… PRICELESS!  Worth the entire session, if you ask me!

And these!  Such a cute family!

I wanted to get a shot of everyone, standing in a line, holding hands.  I just think those can be cute.  I think it even cuter, though!

Graham was getting his coat on… it was COLD out.   I am in love.  That boy has a magnetic smile!

He also has a lotta love for that  mommy of his!

Tracy wanted some “playing” shots… pretty typical of the last part of a session with me!:)  And my favorite part, often!

Another fave!

ANOTHER of my favorites won’t upload!  Hmmmmm…

Graham was running all around!

I love beginning walkers!

and jumping!
Of course, Graham needed to try too!  Brotherly competition and all!

The sun was setting now, it was so pretty!  We were pretty much done, but decided to stop for a few more minutes on the way back to the car.   So glad we did!

Whoooooa!

I think I just want to snuggle him!

Proud mommy!

Tobin was all warmed up and goofy at the very end!  I took advantage.. and, clearly, Tracy was just completely filled with love for that guy!

Happiness is… a chilly afternoon, lights, cuddles, playing, and smiles!

 

That afternoon.. the happiness exploded!

 

Trace, THANK YOU for trusting me, again, to capture your cutie fam!

 

Stacy:)

Tracy - February 20, 2012 - 9:22 pm

Thank you soooooooo much Stac!!! Those pics by the Christmas tree are my favorite family pictures to date! You have definitely captured tge essance of us! :) :) :)

chicken soup and popsicles  |   personal

Hello out there!:)

 

How are ya?

 

This time of year tends to be pretty slow for me… businessly (I know that’s not a word) and personally!   In fact, I only had 2 things on my calendar for ALL of February!  Well, two Official things… Of course, the month ends up getting busier than I expected.. and that’s a good thing.   But it’s also nice to just sloooooow down!

 

So, I’ve been busy dreaming of and preparing for my blog update (which I plan to have done by the 29th!).

 

But mostly, I’ve been hanging out with the kids, with my husband, and vegging!

 

You’d think I’d be well rested!

 

But we ALL know it doesn’t work that way!  Because sometimes, it’s 12:15 am, and you wake up to a screaming kid!  And you go in to find a scene that you hoped and wished would just not occur.   The dreaded tummy bug!

 

If you know me, you know I have a lit-tle bit of a fear of this thing.  I see posts of Facebook mentioning of kids who have come down with it… I get reports from my girls about who threw up in their class… and I think:

 

“It’ll be OK, Stacy!  It will…if it happens, it happens.. you’ll get through it.”

 

And, of course, it eventually does happen!

 

Luckily, my husband and I have a nice little “dance” going upon realizing what is going on… we both go in.. I get the kid and calm them and bathe them.. and he gets to clean up!  Poor guy!:)

 

I usually end up setting up a bed on the living room floor, put on a show for said sickie.. and help them through their hard times.  All the while Lysolling and washing my hands like mad!

 

But in the end, and I’m not sure we’re AT the end yet… fingers crossed, looking at these sleep-deprived days (Sun night I got 1.5 hours)…the overwhelming sense I feel is that I am lucky!

 

I get to be here to snuggle my sick little guy.  And the next day, we watch TV ALLLllll morning, it’s such a peaceful time (once the worst of it is over, of course).

 

Oddly, maybe, I looked over at Rowen , gazing up at the TV, sad to be so sick… and thought how CUTE he looked.  So of course I snapped a picture with my cell phone!  (I do that a LOT!)

 

I have recently added an APP to my cell phone… I know that sounds weird!  My very first app and I’ve had an iPhone since last March!   I added Instagram.  It’s pretty fun!   I don’t normally give my pictures any sort of wash treatment business wise, so it’s kinda fun to play!

 

I made a little collage of the past few days because I’m weird!:)

Top left… the sad, sad picture:(  But he’s SO cute!!!

 

When my kids have a tummy bug, I give them “jello water” as their first liquid, usually.   He was so tired, but loved it!  He pepped up SO fast, and was happy as a clam the whole day!  Crazy boy!:)

 

I made chicken noodle soup… I even made the broth myself!  GO ME!:)

 

We were a little worried that Valentines Day would be marred by our not-so-welcome visitor.. but it kindly went to the back burner so everyone could enjoy the day.   It popped back up last night at 4am for a one-time performance for Rowen AGAIN!:)  But he is back to himself now… after some popsicles and rest!
And I got our “job chart” done!  WOO HOOOOOOO!:)

 

Oh, and this is funny too!:)    I went to check on Chase to see if he was awake after naptime yesterday… and I COULD NOT FIND the boy!  Then, I realized there was a funny lump under the covers… peeled it back and found my super cute sleeping 4 year old!  SO sweet!

Anyway, I want to add a little more ME into my business… and, though a weird topic… it’s just so me!  Taking care of these people I made … taking pictures… all the time!:)

 

And I wouldn’t trade it for the world!

 

OH!  And WHY do my kids always get sick at NIGHT… ???  Does that happen to you too???

 

Stacy:)

riley & reese & now reagan |  virginia newborn photographer

When I met my husband, it wasn’t long before I met his friends from college.  I was a little jealous because he was still NEAR his friends from college… mine were all the way up in Massachusetts.  But I quickly realized that his friends were now mine as well.

 

He did a good job picking friends!

 

ALL of them have been nothing but supportive of my venture into the photography world way back when.  And ALL of them have kinda given me a hard time for making so many babies so quickly.   Especially Kenny!

 

Kenny and Michelle dated in college and got married.   They had their first baby, Riley,  about 5 weeks after we had ours.  We ent pumpkin picking with our teeny little bundles that year… and celebrated birthdays together.  It was a great time!!!  Then I had two more kids!!!  Then, Reese came along.

 

One, of many, things I love about them is that they don’t find out the gender of their babies until they are born!  I think it’s the best surprise in the entire world!!!  (I did find out 2 of mine.. had to be fair to Keith!).

 

Another amazing thing… Michelle gets incredibly sick when she is pregnant.. the ENTIRE time.  I can’t imagine feeling that bad for that long!    I can KINDA see, after having such sickness the 1st go ’round, trying for a 2nd baby.  Hopeing that it doesn’t happen again.   But going through that THREE times!?   Amazing!

 

But So worth it.. because then, you get to see this!

You get to see your baby become a proud, big sister!

 

You get to see INSANE amounts of pride and love beaming out of your daughters eyes when they hold the new baby!

Is the sickness worth THIS!?

I think I’d answer that with a gigantic “YEP!”

 

6 little feet!

 

Doing the family pictures for this session … it was SO funny!   Kenny, Michelle.. and the girls.  Well, they usually got to a studio close to their house (They live near Charlottesville).  The studio does a great job…. just a VERY different style then me.  A very “posed” family portrait.   And soo…

Everyone sat, arranged themselves, and smiled.  And smiled.  It was pretty incredible!!!

 

But I got them to let loose a little!

Kenny’s face = priceless!

 

 

Seeing Riley hold Reagan is adorable to me.  Since mine are closer together, they oldest couldn’t “help” like that when I had the babe!   It is so cute to see Riley and imagine Sage in her position!:)

 

I think Michelle is a proud mommy!

Riley’s expression!  Ahhhhhh…love:)

 

Kenny got a turn too!  So…. the way my husband met his friends was through playing football at Randolph-Macon College.   You’d expect, then, because I’m totally stereotyping… that they would want to have a boy… at least on try 3.  Kenny didn’t!!!  He was hoping for another girl!  He loves his girls!!! 

Riley… you are one perrrrty chick!

As we have all become super busy with our growing families, we haven’t had as much time together.  So I feel like I know Riley more than Reese.  But spending the day with them… I saw more of her.  Reese is so sweet, so natural… and hilarious!!!  She was singing and dancing for me.   She laid down and looked right at me… this about sums her up!

Those eyes!!!

 

We went inside to do some newborn pictures of Reagan while the big ones watched a movie and relaxed! 

I place Reagan onto the beanbag for a minute while I was getting myself organized and their pup plopped right down!

 

When I look at newborn photography, I love the pictures of the newborns nudie and posed.  Hats, headbands, chin in hands.. I LOVE those.   I am always impressed!   As I do more and more newborns, though.. I realize that try as I might to make they my style.. it just isn’t.   Now, I will never stop doing some shots like that … I think it is so simple, so pretty.  But I think I am evolving and becoming more and more comfy in the fact that it’s not “me”.   I am more of a let’s take what we have here, and make it work.. kind of girl!

 

And what we had… was a wide awake nugget… who wanted to snuggle her mom!:)

Oh… and this!  How cute is she??!

I know I’ve said it a million times, but I LOVE my custom newborn blankets by All The Trend!  The babies seem to love them too!  It calms them right down!:)  And they’re cute!:)

I wonder what she is thinking about!

 

Oh, her headband is by Scarlett’s Poppies!  (Remember the birth I got to shoot??   Christina has opened her own Etsy shop with her crocheted hats and cute things!!!).

Reese wanted to see what we were up to!

Ohh.. just putting little Reagan into a basket!  That’s all!

Hey there, little peeker!

She really seemed to like being in that basket!  I just want to snuggle her and breathe in her head!  So soft!

This series… so sweet!  Baby feet are the best!

Since Reagan was still awake, I decided just to get her dressed and snap!!!  They confirmed for me that I am really loving the more natural newborn photography.  I get to observe more… and observing is pretty much my favorite things abotu being a photographer!

I became mildly obsessed with the heart on her tush… and her feet!

Because here’s the thing… those feet?   See them?   Those things will HOLD HER UP one day?  Like, she will walk on them!  LOOK at how teeny they are?!  So delicate!  And she will walk on them?   I may be a little crazy, but it amazes me every single time!

Look at that little body!

Kenny and Michelle make STRONG babies!

LOVE…

I had such a good time watching her wiggle and move!

 

Snuggling Reagan… seeing Kenny and Michelle and their THREE girls together… made for a GREAT day after Thanksgiving!  They definitely have a lot to be thankful for…. I am thankful that they chose me to capture this stage.  It’s a great, great one!

 

Stacy:)

Jamie - February 9, 2012 - 7:42 pm

I love reading your blogs – they always make me smile. I agree it’s amazing about those feet! What a fun family!

apparently  |  warrenton, va photographer

Apparently, my personality… my wit and charm… have been lost on my own 2 boys!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

 

Oh well!

Katy - February 2, 2012 - 3:24 am

This is just too cute! Truly – it looks like they are falling asleep! Love it!

family fun  |  lake anna photographer

We spent Thanksgiving at my parents lake house with my whole family!  It was so fun!  I love having us all live close together.  I hope my kids stay close by when they are grown ups too!:)

 

Anywhooooo… while we were there, we did a teeny-tiny mini session of her fam for their New Year cards!:)

They went with a jammies theme!

 

I’m sure you’ve seen “pyramid” pictures before, from me.  It’s kinda a family tradition.  I have clear memories of all of us stacking up on my dad and trying not to fall over!:)  The pyramid tradition continues…

I love this little family!  … and that face!  Oh Shaili!  I love ya!

A little bit of flying with daddy!   Levin borrowed Rowen’s hat!

Shaili flew too, but for some reason her picture won’t load!

They ended up using the next picture on the front of their card.. along with the words:  “May all of your troubles last as long as your New Years Resolutions”

 

They all bought brand-new jammies for these pictures! 

I want pictures like those for myself… but it would be hard to balance all 4 of ours kids on 2 sets of shoulders.  We should try!  it would be hilarious!

Jody decided she really wanted to balance on 1 foot. 

Craig got jealous of everyone in their hats… so he borrowed Rowens as well.

 

So, since my camera was around my neck… I ventured to the front yard to snap a few of the kids.  Rowen, who never got his “official” 2 year pictures taken (and neither did Chase.. well, his 4 year ones)… was looking pretty cute!

I love his face!  See his chipped tooth?  Poor guy fell on his face right before he turned 2.  They had to shave his tooth down a tiny bit so the sharp point would stop cutting his tongue.  It looks better like this than it did before!

If I wrote about him in November, when I took these,  I would have said he was such an easy-going 2 year old!  And he still is… but in the past month.. PHEW!  The boy had a language explosion again, he says “I doooooo!” about everything, he schreeches, and just generally is becoming more independent.  It is SO interesting to watch this, in him… my baby!  And exciting! 
Isn’t his shirt the coolest!???  LOVE it!

My brothers kids are not on the blog as much.. and only one was outside at the time… Reese!  I hope to do a little session for them this spring!  I don’t see them quite as often!  I wish we did because Reese is only 6 weeks older than Sage!  (And her big sister Cami is only a year older than that!)

Bry and Reese play together a lot!

I wish the other kids were outside!:)

 

Once all the big kids were in bed or baths, Levin was up hanging out in the living room.  My camera was next to me since we were looking at the pictures from the beach, and my mom and Lev were having a moment.  She MAY kill me for blogging these, but I am OK with that!  I think she is 100% adorable!

Side note:  I am NOT an indoor, dark place photographer!  I mean, for weddings, yes, but I have a flash!:)  But for normal photography..ummm.. nope!:)

I pretty much think that our kids are the luckiest on the planet to have the grandparents that they have!  The best!

A little moment with his mommy…

… and his daddy!

So, I know, I know.. these are just from November!  I’m getting there!  Next up… newborn Reagan!

I hope you are all enjoying this oddly yet amazingly warm January day!

 

Stacy:)